perspective

If you are given this situation--

You want to borrow something from your friend but this friend of you kind of reluctant to do so... So they turn you down in not so straight way like hmmm--I forget to bring @ I need to use(in fact they dont) etc

Most of us, when we find out the ugly truth after that we might think that why don't they just say they dont want to borrow me!

BUT!

If they turn you down straight by saying that I dont feel like lending it to you then we'll say: walao, why cant this person says it in another way so that they wont hurt others feelings..

That's what life is and there are alot of similar cases. People looks thing from different perspective and not every one of us can go to the same conclusion, even if we're best friend. So, we have to tolerate with the others and... Friendship that we have built up for the past 5 years should be strong enough to withstand any conflicts.

I have faith in everyone of us. Can our friendship still be as how it was last time? I dont know. But time will prove everything.

~God bless us~